Hey sweet mama, it’s Bek! 💛 I’m so glad you stopped by today.
Let’s talk sibling relationships; those beautiful, messy, refining connections that grow in the heart of our homes. As a mama of four (two boys and two girls), and one of eight siblings myself, I’ve seen the whole spectrum—from giggles and hugs to slammed doors and shouted words. 😅
There was a season when the tension between my sons was so strong that we had to separate their bedrooms. It felt like I was failing… like peace was something other families got to enjoy but not ours. I cried out to God—“Lord, help my boys. Help me.”
And He did. 💗
The breakthrough came little by little; when I began speaking life over my sons. Instead of only correcting their behavior, I declared truth: “You are a mighty man of God. That’s not who you are.” I trusted the Holy Spirit was at work even when I couldn’t see it, and I began praying the attributes of God over them—patience, love, kindness, gentleness.
It didn’t happen overnight, but it did happen. Today, those same boys who couldn’t share a room now snowboard, fix cars, and hang out at Dutch Bros together: with joy and peace! 🙌
So if you’re in the thick of it today, mama, don’t give up. You’re not alone. God hears your prayers. He sees your tears. And He is faithful.
🛑 Here’s your tip this Friday:
Start speaking life TODAY. Tell your kids who they are in Christ. Declare peace over your home. Pray the characteristics of God into their hearts. Ask the Holy Spirit to move: He’s already at work.
📖 “For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him.” – 1 Samuel 1:27
And if you need help getting started, check out our free printable with daily attributes of God to pray over your children at myhelpclubformoms.com.
You’re doing a great job, mama. Keep planting those seeds; your harvest will come.
Let me pray for you… 🙏
“Jesus, bring peace to this mama’s home. Encourage her heart. Bind every scheme of the enemy and release Your joy, unity, and strength over her family. In Your name, amen.”
💛 With love,
Bek and the Help Club Team
Having lived in Colorado Springs most of her life, Bek enjoys hiking, camping, snowboarding, and other outdoor adventures with her family. When she is not busy homeschooling her four children, you might find Bek absorbed in a book or creating something lovely with her hands.
Bek is learning to continually practice the presence of God as He refines her for His perfect purposes. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
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